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Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)
Gavin De Becker
Rating: 5.0/5 Stars
Rank: 3831
Be warned: In many ways this is a terrifying book. It deals with a
subject--violence against children--that most of us never want to
consider.
But, as Gavin de Becker stresses, such situations, though rare,
can occur, so all parents must deal with the facts in order to protect
their children properly.
De Becker's aim is to create awareness of
potential dangers and provide parents with the knowledge necessary for
prevention and control.
As he emphatically states in Protecting the
Gift, much of this knowledge is already hard-wired in the form of
intuition: "This natural ability is deep, brilliant, powerful.
Nature's
greatest accomplishment, the human brain, is stunningly efficient when its
host is at risk, but when one's child is at risk, it moves to a whole new
level, one we can justifiably call miraculous." The trick, he stresses, is
trusting and acting on intuition. In this valuable, even necessary,
book, he shatters many myths about the typical profiles of regular
offenders and the prevalence of such problems as sexual abuse and
kidnapping. He also deconstructs the wisdom of traditional maxims such as
"Never talk to strangers" and "If you are ever lost, go to a policeman."
Without offering a compendium of every conceivable danger, he identifies
warning signals and real risks that are often easy to spot once you know
what to look for. He offers practical advice on recognizing signs of
sexual abuse, choosing a baby sitter or nanny, how to prepare kids for
walking to school alone, and how to teach children about potential risks
without making them afraid to venture out of the house.
And he continually
stresses that denial and ignoring intuition are the biggest mistakes that
parents make in protecting their kids from those that mean them harm.
Well
written and infinitely informative, Protecting the Gift affords
parents more confidence and less reason for unnecessary worry. --Shawn
Carkonen--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable
edition of this title.
About the AuthorBestselling author Gavin de Becker is America's leading expert on
predicting violent behavior. Advising such clients as the
C.I.A. and the United States Supreme Court, this three-time presidential
appointee has changed the way the United States government protects its
highest officials.
He is a senior fellow at UCLA's School of Public Policy
and Social Research.
Editorials
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Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)
Gavin De Becker
![]() | | | Amazon.com | | Be warned: In many ways this is a terrifying book. It deals with a
subject--violence against children--that most of us never want to
consider. But, as Gavin de Becker stresses, such situations, though rare,
can occur, so... read full editorial |
![]() | | | From Booklist | | In De Becker's well-received first book on anticipating, avoiding, and
preventing personal violence, he wrote about The Gift of Fear
(1997) and encouraged regarding fearful feelings as warnings to be heeded
rather than... read full editorial |
![]() | | | Ann Wolbert Burgess, Professor of Psychiatric Nursing, University of Pennsylvania | | "Gavin de Becker's PROTECTING THE GIFT takes a giant step in helping
parents translate fear into positive action that can provide safety for
their children." --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable
edition of this title. |
Customer Reviews
Sample 3 of 35
Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)
Gavin De Becker
![]() | | | Protecting the Gift surprised me... | | (California) July 14, 1999 - 5.0/5 stars | | Those jumpy about facing the subject of threats to children's safety might
actually find some strength in this book. Somehow, Gavin de Becker
overcame an extremely violent childhood to become an expert not only on
accurately... read full review |
![]() | | | PARENTS - READ THIS BOOK! | | (Northeaster PA) March 17, 2002 - 5.0/5 stars | | I give this book as a gift to all of my friends and family who have or are
expecting children. Gavin De Becker is right on the money with this
book...you need to read it and listen to your own instints! Well written,... read full review |
![]() | | | If you want to protect your kids - this is the book to read | | (Van. Island BC Canada) January 28, 2005 - 5.0/5 stars | | I admit there were some aspects of this book that illicited a fair amount
of fear, but don't let that stop you!! The main point being, once you are
aware of the dangers you are better equiped to handle the situation... read full review |
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