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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
Melody Beattie
Rating: 4.5/5 Stars
Rank: 359
Codependency is an important aspect of the interpersonal dynamic among
people with addictive disorders. Codependent people find themselves
obsessed in often futile ways with controlling someone who repeatedly
makes trouble for him- or herself or others.
Few people understand this
idea as well as Melody Beattie, an author recovering successfully from a
variety of addictive disorders and entanglements.
In this popular work,
she combines real-life stories with lucid explanations of the concepts
that define every part of the codependent syndrome.
Delivered by the
incomparable Gabrielle de Cuir, the program paints a coherent,
enlightening picture and offers many constructive ideas for people stuck
in a codependent pattern.
T.W. © AudioFile 2004, Portland, Maine--
Copyright © AudioFile, Portland, Maine--This text refers
to the
Audio Cassette edition.
About the AuthorBeattie was a struggling single parent of two children and freelance author
and journalist cranking out stories for a small-town daily newspaper in
1986 when she came up with a book idea.
She wanted to write a book about
what happens to people when they love someone who is addicted to alcohol
and other drugs."There were many books out there about how to help an
addict or alcoholic.
Nobody was talking about how an addict impacts the
lives of the people around him or her, and how crazy you can become when
you love someone who is addicted," Beattie said.
"Even though I was sober,
I didn't know how crazy I could get until it happened to me." Twenty
publishers turned down Beattie's book proposal. "It's a good idea, but we
don't think there's that many codependents out there," they wrote
back.Hazelden, however, a treatment center and recovery publisher based in
Minnesota, saw a need for the book.
The publisher understood how families
of alcoholics suffer and believed Beattie's book idea would help people.
Beattie marched to the welfare department, asked for enough financial help
to make it through the three months it would take her to write the book,
then locked herself in a basement office and cranked out Codependent No
More.
Codependent No More has now sold 3.5 million copies. Beattie has
since written nine more books, five for major publishing houses on the
east and west coasts.
She relocated from Minnesota to California, and she
has long-since paid back the welfare department. Beattie has appeared in
the pages of Newsweek and People and has been a regular guest on Geraldo
and Oprah.
Playing It By Heart is Beattie's first original book for
Hazelden since 1990; the book is a return to her recovery roots that first
brought her national recognition.
Editorials
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
Melody Beattie
![]() | | | From AudioFile | | Codependency is an important aspect of the interpersonal dynamic among
people with addictive disorders. Codependent people find themselves
obsessed in often futile ways with controlling someone who repeatedly
makes trouble... read full editorial |
![]() | | | Book Description | | recovery has begun for millions of individuals with this straightforward
guide. through personal examples and exercises, readers are shown how
controlling others forces them to lose sight of their own needs and
happiness. |
Customer Reviews
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
Melody Beattie
![]() | | | This book may save my marriage | | (Omaha, NE USA) September 16, 1998 - 5.0/5 stars | | Friendly to those with Christian values. This book hit me between the
eyes with the truth by page 3. My humble thanks to the author. How could I
have been so blind? |
![]() | | | A Guide To Help Identify and Change Unpleasant Emotions | | (Cincinnati, OH) December 1, 1999 - 5.0/5 stars | | I finished reading this book and turned back to the front and started
reading it again. How could anyone describe me so perfectly and give me
the help and guidance I need when they don't even no who I am.The best
self help... read full review |
![]() | | | Best CODA book out there | | (USA) December 23, 2004 - 5.0/5 stars | | Once again Beattie tops the list on self-help books and the subject of
codependency. Very to the point on CODA issues and why we act and re-act
to the point of being miserable in our lives.
She list many
of the behaviors... read full review |
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